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The stand off

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When two people stop contacting one another, it becomes a challenge to see who will give in first. Reaching out first cannot be determined by gender, but rather the feelings involved on both sides. If someone cares for you, they will find it difficult to maintain their distance from you. On the other hand, if a person is capable of going without contacting you for an extended period of time, it is likely that you are not a priority in their life. You may find yourself checking your messages, hoping for the slightest indication of interest. It’s important, however, not to read too much into things. There is a common misconception in which people interpret not reaching out as a suppression of feelings. While this is a possibility, it is much more likely that the person failing to contact you is simply not interested in you. When you are struggling to fight the urge to reach out to this person, do your best to stay calm and contemplate the situation. Every person in this world has value. ...
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The sweet guy or the bad boy

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Most guys ask themselves what a woman really wants in most cases guys think the asshole or the bad boy. Most women when they’re young maybe but as time goes on they want a sweet genuine down to earth guy. Something that took me a while to understand. The bad boy will never have a sustainable relationship the reason I say this is because even though he’s adventurous or thrill seeking he will never have a true genuine connection he will find someone different once he gets bored. The sweet guy will take the time to get to know the girl have conversations laugh and genuinely enjoy her company. Regardless of what it is,it could be a dinner date or even sitting on the couch watching a movie with him what his primary focus is getting to know her making her happy and forming a connection with her. So in my experience the sweet guy wins in the long haul. He still can be adventurous just like the bad boy but at the same time her interest is in his heart. So that’s my opinion on why the sweet guy...
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Mixed signals

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One of the biggest challenges in the dating pool is getting mixed signals whether it’s a guy giving a girl them or the girl giving them to the guy. Mixed signals can be tough. Like a perfect example having that shy girl make a move most people would say that isn’t the way the guy should,but let’s be real it’s 2024. Someone needs to make a move at some point or it will remain extremely platonic and maybe whoever is sending those signals whether it’s the guy or girl in this case it’s the guy and it’s her job to make the move if she wants things to go further. One can say what if he doesn’t like me like that but the truth is if you want that person bad enough you have to put yourself out there and really hope the feelings mutual. That’s where the fear in dating comes from the fear of rejection. The best advice is remain calm communicate those feelings and go in for the move.
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The Beautiful Girl with the ugly guy

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 Many guys wonder how does the ugly guy get the beautiful girl many would say it has to be for money or something else he has to offer that is substantial for her or something for her to gain but that’s really not the case entirely. Many woman just want a sweet genuine guy that will treat her right. A lot of people would say the cocky asshole who’s good looking usually ends up with the beautiful girl. That not so good looking guy probably saw that girl in a restaurant picking up food or at a store in the isle shopping. But what some guys think is a girl like that wouldn’t want to be with a guy like me and most women can smell the lack of confidence on a man. That ugly guy walked up to that girl and simply just introduced himself or opened the conversation with a one liner. She could have been looking at shades for her living room and he happened to complimented the shade to strike up a conversation.  If you simply take an interest in what they are doing  at that time even...
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identifying the person to approach in the room

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 The first thing to look for when you’re trying to approach the opposite sex is understanding what you want and identifying body language. For a perfect example is a girl sitting at the bar playing with her hair that’s a Q identifying that woman can’t wait to leave the bar or doesn’t want to be there all together from which this could be good for the right guy with the correct mindset, meaning that if he’s a genuine gentlemen chances are he could potentially end up leaving the bar with her. But what I do is try explaining on finding a person you can settle down with not just hookup with or pick up a girl or guy at the bar. But I can help with that as well if that’s what you’re looking for but like I said it’s not my ultimate goal on helping you with that. The goal is to find someone and build a relationship with them. Regardless of the setting, location or even time of day. You can see a girl that catches your eye in a coffee shop my job is to give you the tools to start that conve...
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